To find an appraisal request all you have to do it type it in the "Search Our Huge Database of Appraisals" box at the top-right corner of any page.  Enter a few keywords about your item (i.e. "Haviland and Co. Sugar Bowl Osier Blank Pattern") and click the "Search" button.  You will then see your appraisal request and any comments entered by the community.
Re: i can not find my post for an appraisal
 To find an appraisal request all you have to do it type it in the "Search Our Huge Database of Appraisals" box at the top-right corner of any page.  Enter a few keywords about your item (i.e. "Haviland and Co. Sugar Bowl Osier Blank Pattern") and click the "Search" button.  You will then see your appraisal request and any comments entered by the community.